Men’s Therapy Podcast

Top Psychologist: Stop being a Nice Guy w/ Dr. Robert Glover

In today's episode of Men's Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay sits down with Dr. Robert Glover. He is the renowned author of "No More Mr. Nice Guy" and a leading expert on men's issues. Dr. Glover discusses his transformation from a "nice guy" to promoting genuine masculinity. He now advocates for building healthy relationships based on authenticity.
Dr. Glover's story begins with his relationship struggles. He realized that being 'nice' wasn't serving him well. He shares how his second wife's ultimatum pushed him to seek help. This experience inspired him to write his groundbreaking book. As a therapist and through personal experience, Dr. Glover noticed patterns in men who were "too nice." He saw how these behaviours held them back. To address this, he developed strategies to help men break these self-defeating habits. His work now focuses on empowering men to embrace authentic masculinity.
The Shadow Side of Nice Guy Syndrome
Dr. Glover delves into the darker aspects of Nice Guy Syndrome. He explains that nice guys often aren't as nice as they believe themselves to be. This leads to the development of toxic masculinity over time. He explains that behind their pleasant exteriors, these men often conceal resentment. They may also display passive-aggressive behaviour. Some may even struggle with violent impulses. The root of this behaviour lies in toxic shame and anxiety developed in childhood.
"Nice guys have this shame and this anxiety. And what they do, the way that it, the way there, the particular neuroses of nice guy syndrome shows up is through two ways. One, trying to become what we think other people want us to be, to be liked and loved and get our needs met. So, we're chameleons," Dr. Glover explains.
Identifying Needs and Wants
One of the key challenges for nice guys is recognizing and expressing their own needs and wants. Dr. Glover offers practical advice for men struggling with this issue. He advises men to start by recalling activities they enjoyed as a child. He guides them to focus on their basic needs as well as emotional needs. Men need to understand the distinction between needs and wants. By practising giving to yourself instead of always giving to others, this can be achieved.
Dr. Glover emphasizes the importance of "cooperative reciprocal relationships" in meeting one's needs. He encourages men to surround themselves with people. And resources that can help them fulfil their needs and wants in a mutually beneficial way.
Role of Women in Men's Development
While the focus is primarily on men's growth, Dr. Glover addresses the role women can play in supporting nice guys' development. He suggests that women can offer constructive feedback when necessary. They can be supportive and reinforcing when men make efforts to change. They can work on being better listeners and more attentive to men's emotional cues. But, Dr. Glover stresses that the primary responsibility for change lies with men themselves.
Future of Men's Development
Dr. Glover expresses optimism about the future of men's development. He notes the increasing availability of resources and communities for men seeking growth. He envisions a new generation of men who are more conscious and open-hearted. They are powerful and fierce, yet connected. They are in touch with their dark side and are joyful and receptive in life.
"We're gonna make a fucking dent in the universe. We're gonna make a difference in this world. And, I see that happening," Dr. Glover enthuses.
Conclusion
This episode of the Men's Therapy Podcast offers invaluable insights for men looking to overcome Nice Guy Syndrome. It offers guidance to develop healthier, more authentic relationships. Dr. Glover's decades of experience and wisdom offer hope for men struggling with these issues.
He highlights the importance of taking responsibility for one's needs and wants. Men must recognize the value of cooperative reciprocal relationships. This allows the need for men to step into their role as conscious, open-hearted leaders. Dr. Glover's optimism about the future of men's development is infectious. He envisions a generation of integrated men who can make a significant positive impact on the world.
As we look to the future, it's evident that the work of overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome is more relevant than ever. There is a rise in passivity among younger generations. Hence there's a growing need for resources and communities. Ones that can guide men towards a more authentic and fulfilling expression of masculinity.
By seeking out supportive group therapies, men can work towards becoming more integrated. They can become authentic versions of themselves. This will benefit not only their own lives but also their relationships and the world around them.
About Dr. Robert Glover
Dr. Robert Glover is a renowned psychotherapist, author, and speaker. He has dedicated his career to helping men overcome Nice Guy Syndrome. He guides them to develop healthier relationships. His groundbreaking book, "No More Mr. Nice Guy," has sold millions of copies worldwide. It has been translated into many languages.
With over 30 years of experience in the field, Dr. Glover has become a leading voice in men's personal development. He holds a Ph.D. in Marriage and Family Therapy. He helps men healthily tackle relationship dynamics. He has worked with thousands of men to help them break free from self-defeating patterns. And embrace their authentic selves.
Besides his clinical work and writing, Dr. Glover leads workshops, seminars, and online communities. This includes his men's program called 'Integration Nation'. His approach combines psychological insights with practical strategies. This helps men to become more confident, assertive, and fulfilled in all areas of their lives.
Resources Discussed
"No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Dr. Robert Glover
Integration Nation men's program
Dr. Glover's website
No More Mr. Nice Guy Website
Connect with Dr. Robert Glover
LinkedIn
Facebook
YouTube

Beyond Cultures: Shifts in Masculinity and Machismo w/ Mauricio Verduzco

In today’s episode of Men's Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay sits down with Mauricio Verduzco. He is a therapist specializing in men's issues and cultural dynamics. Verduzco has a unique background. Having lived in both Mexico and the United States, he provides a rich perspective. He discusses the complexities of masculinity across different cultures.
Verduzco shares his personal journey: "I never quite felt like I fit in for various reasons. My family moved around a lot when I was growing up... Before I landed in Austin, Texas, I had lived in like 17 different cities, bouncing around between the U.S. and Mexico." This experience of straddling two cultures shaped Verduzco's understanding of masculinity. It helped in understanding its cultural variations.
He recalls, "The examples I had of masculinity at home were very healthy ones. My dad was not a man's man... I was kind of allowed to express my masculinity, but I felt I needed to." Yet, Verduzco notes that the world outside his home was not as accepting. He highlights the tension between personal expression and societal expectations of masculinity.
Cultural Dimensions of Masculinity
Verduzco's presentation on machismo sparked interest in masculinity across cultures. It led to broader discussions on global masculinity. He explains:
"In Mexico, in the bigger cities, masculinity was much more... metrosexual. The more masculine guys were guys with really well-neat and done hair, their button-up shirts were done quite nicely... It was normal for dudes to have like manicured hands."
This contrasts sharply with his experiences in Texas: "The more masculine guys are the ones who don't appear to put as much effort into the appearance... Seeing somebody with muddied up boots was usually more of a status symbol."
These observations highlight how cultural context shapes the expression and perception of masculinity.
Toxicity of Traditional Masculinity
Verduzco breaks down toxic masculinity into three key tenets:
Power and Dominance: "You have to use whatever tools you have at your disposal to get power. To be a dominant figure in whatever space you're in."
Toughness: "Men have to be tough, tough it out. We have to be self-sufficient. We're not allowed to ask for help."
Anti-Femininity: "Everything that isn't overtly masculine is feminine, so it's bad."
He emphasizes how these rigid expectations can be harmful. Mauricio highlights, "Unfortunately, some cultures ingrain the toxicity of masculinity. Into our cultural identity."
Redefining Masculinity for Better Mental Health
Verduzco advocates for a more inclusive and expansive definition of masculinity. He emphasizes the need for support groups. Mauricio says, "I would love for masculinity to be redefined as one where it's... not restrictive. Where if you want to wear nail polish, it's masculine. If you want to have a very traditional appearance, it's masculine."
Mauricio highlights the importance of emotional intelligence. Men and emotions go hand in hand for a healthy life. Emotions must not be ignored. He stresses the importance of recognizing both achievements and the journey towards them. One should encourage human connection and emotional awareness as integral parts of masculinity.
Conclusion
As society continues to evolve, so too must our understanding of masculinity. Mauricio Verduzco's insights offer a path forward. It honors cultural heritage. And also embraces a more inclusive expression of manhood. Challenging harmful stereotypes and promoting genuine self-expression helps men build healthier relationships. This leads to improved mental wellbeing. It benefits men across all cultures.
About Mauricio Verduzco
Mauricio Verduzco is a licensed therapist. He specializes in men's mental health and cultural issues. He has a unique background spanning both Mexican and American cultures. Verduzco brings a nuanced perspective to his work on masculinity and emotional well-being. He currently practices at the Tree of Life Counseling Center. He focuses on helping individuals from marginalized backgrounds. Particularly men who struggle with traditional notions of masculinity.
Verduzco draws on his own experiences with different cultural views of manhood to shape his approach. His work aims to challenge toxic masculinity while honoring cultural heritage. He is promoting a more inclusive expression of masculinity. Verduzco helps men build healthier relationships with themselves and others. He promotes emotional awareness and genuine self-expression. His work is done through therapy and education. He is committed to improving men's well-being.
Resources Mentioned
Tree of Life Counseling Center
Root of It (nonprofit)
Psychology Today (Mauricio’s profile)
Connect with Mauricio On:
Email: mauricio@treeoflifecounselingcenter.org
Instagram
Website

How to be the Perfect Dad w/ Larry Hagner

In a world where the role of fathers is constantly evolving, Larry Hagner stands out as a beacon of wisdom and guidance. He is the host of the popular Dad Edge podcast and author of "The Spirit of Fatherhood." Larry has spent over a decade exploring the intricacies of modern masculinity and parenting. In today's episode of the Men's Therapy podcast, Larry shares his journey. He offers a candid look at the challenges and triumphs of fatherhood.
Larry's story begins with a tumultuous childhood, marked by divorce and abusive relationships. "I started thinking, I was like, wait a second. Like I know about the birds and the bees and this dude came around when I was four. So like, where did I even come from? I had no idea," Larry recounts. This early experience shaped his determination to break the cycle and become a better father and husband.
Larry's journey to becoming a parenting expert wasn't smooth sailing. He admits to breaking promises he made to himself about being a good father. "I spanked my four-year-old who's 16 now and I did a total anger and a reactionary. I just lost my patience," he confesses. This moment became a catalyst for change, pushing Larry to seek knowledge and resources to improve his parenting skills.
Creating Psychological Safety
Larry emphasizes the importance of creating an environment where children feel safe to be themselves. "We call it an environment of psychological safety where kids can be themselves. They can be fully who they are without fear of blame, pain, judgment, or guilt," he explains. This approach fosters open communication and trust between parents and children.
The Marriage-First Approach
One of Larry's controversial yet powerful insights is prioritizing marriage over parenting. "I'm married first and I'm a father second," he states. Larry believes that a strong marital relationship sets the foundation for effective parenting. It helps to model healthy relationships for children.
Tailoring Parenting Styles
Larry stresses the importance of understanding each child's unique needs. He focuses on adapting parenting styles accordingly. "We have four boys, and all parented differently," he shares. Larry highlights the need for flexibility and observation in parenting.
Power of Connection
Throughout the interview, Larry emphasizes connection's crucial role in parenting and marriage. "Without connection, we have no influence," he explains. Larry underscores the importance of building strong relationships with both children and spouses.
Embracing Spirituality
Larry's journey also includes a deepening of his spiritual life. He credits with enhancing his role as a father and husband. "I finally understood all these things that my kids were asking. All the questions that I had that I didn't know the answers to," he reflects on his spiritual growth.
Conclusion
Larry's journey and insights offer a compelling roadmap for modern fatherhood and masculinity. He emphasizes the importance of continuous learning, emotional intelligence, and adaptability in parenting. Fathers can nurture their children's growth by building strong connections. Adapting their parenting to each child's unique needs helps meet individual needs. Prioritizing the marital relationship also strengthens the family dynamic. Hagner's story shows that becoming a better father is an ongoing process of self-reflection. It also involves continuous learning and personal growth.
The spirit of fatherhood, as Hagner describes it, is about more than just being present or providing for your family. It's about creating a nurturing environment where children feel safe, loved, and guided. This involves being vulnerable enough to admit mistakes. And strong enough to keep learning. It is about recognizing the profound influence fathers have on their children's lives. By embracing these principles, fathers can break negative cycles. They can create a lasting, positive impact on future generations.
Hagner's insights remind us that being a great father isn't about being perfect. It's about building strong connections and growing as a parent. Above all, it's about staying committed to your family. By prioritizing our marriages and embracing spirituality, we can build strong families. Modelling positive behaviours helps raise resilient children. This prepares them to face life's challenges with confidence and compassion. The journey of fatherhood is challenging, but with the right mindset and tools, it can be one of the most rewarding experiences a man can have.
About Larry Hagner
Larry Hagner is the founder of the Dad Edge, host of the popular Dad Edge podcast, and author of "The Spirit of Fatherhood." He has over a decade of experience in the masculinity and parenting space. Larry has interviewed countless experts. He has helped thousands of men become better fathers and husbands. He has done this through his podcasts, books, and coaching programs. His journey into fatherhood education began from a place of personal struggle. Having grown up in a challenging family environment with many divorces and abusive relationships. This background fueled his determination to break the cycle. It made him become a better father and husband than the models he had growing up.
Larry's approach to fatherhood focuses on personal growth and emotional intelligence. It also emphasizes spiritual development. He emphasizes the importance of creating psychological safety for children. He emphasizes prioritizing marriage while parenting. He focuses on tailoring parenting styles to each child's unique needs. Larry's work extends beyond just fatherhood, encompassing marriage, personal development, and spirituality. Larry continues to guide men in their journey to become more present, connected, and effective fathers and partners.
Resources Mentioned
The Dad Edge podcast
The Dad Edge website
"The Spirit of Fatherhood" book by Larry Hagner
Connect With Larry On
Email: larryh@thedadedge.com 
Website: https://linkin.bio/thedadedge/
LinkedIn

Why Do So Many Men Suffer in Silence? w/ Dr Ryan McKelley

Ryan McKelley is a professor at the University of Wisconsin-La Crosse. He is at the forefront of men's mental health research and education. McKelley's expertise in clinical psychology, adds valuable insights to discussions on masculinity. His coaching focuses on men's emotional well-being. In this episode of the Men's Therapy podcast, host Marc Azoulay explores McKelley's journey. He shares McKelley's insights on modern masculinity. 
McKelley's personal story highlights the challenges many men encounter with masculinity. His experience reflects the complexities of these struggles. As he grew up, he experienced both traditionally masculine and feminine activities. Despite this, he felt pressure to conform to certain ideals. The expectations around him shaped his view of masculinity. He focuses on internal gender roles. Ryan says, "I was an athlete, but I wasn't in like the team baseball or football or basketball," he shares. "I think I was always even aware that those weren't even kind of as masculine sports go."
McKelley became aware of gender expectations early in life. His struggles with depression deepened this awareness. These experiences motivated him to research men's mental health. "I suffered a pretty significant depressive episode in seventh grade," he reveals, "and probably about every 10 years... I would have benefited from seeking help."
Unpacking Male Depression
McKelley's research shows how men experience and express emotional distress. His work emphasizes the distinct challenges men face in dealing with their emotions. He explains, "Girls and women are socialized to internalize their mood symptoms... Men tend to externalize." This externalization can manifest as:
Distraction through video games or overworking
Substance use
Irritability and anger
Denial of emotional struggles
"Nobody knew I was depressed," McKelley admits, reflecting on his own experiences. "I was a master at hiding it." This ability to mask depression is common among men. It often leads to a buildup of emotional distress that can have serious consequences.
Challenges of Male Vulnerability
McKelley focuses on the challenge many men have in showing vulnerability. He introduces the concept of the "male emotional funnel." He explains that societal expectations limit the emotions men feel comfortable expressing.
"We all come to the world with a full range of human emotions," McKelley states. "And then through adolescent development, it's like a funnel at the end. There's only like a couple that we, society let them have."
This restriction of emotional expression can lead to what McKelley calls "mask depression." Men become adept at hiding their emotional struggles, often at great personal cost.
Redefining Masculinity
McKelley advocates for a more flexible, or "malleable," approach to masculinity. He explains, "Masculinity has just gone in all these different directions... it changes based on all these different levers." This understanding allows for a more nuanced and compassionate view of men's experiences.
He emphasizes the importance of teaching men mindfulness and self-compassion. He says, "Being able to experience physical sensations, thoughts, emotions, and then even our physical surroundings non-judgmentally and with curiosity." This approach can help men develop greater emotional intelligence and resilience.
The Way Forward
McKelley emphasizes the importance of a more compassionate approach to men's mental health. He argues that viewing emotional growth as bravery, not weakness, can encourage more men to improve themselves.
"We need to figure out ways to develop that," he says. He refers to compassion and empathy for men's experiences. He advocates for teaching men self-compassion. This involves showing them how to apply self-kindness. And a sense of common humanity to themselves. "By doing this, men can better practice self-compassion," highlights McKelley.
Conclusion
Ryan McKelley's insights provide a guide for understanding the unique challenges men face today. His work helps address these issues. He promotes a flexible view of masculinity. He emphasizes emotional intelligence can improve men's mental health. Emphasizing self-compassion is also crucial. Together, these approaches create a healthier, more supportive environment for men's personal growth.
About Ryan McKelley
Dr. Ryan McKelley is a professor at the University of Wisconsin-La Crosse. He specializes in men's mental health and masculinity studies. He has a PhD in clinical and counselling psychology. Dr. McKelley has dedicated his career to understanding the challenges faced by men. His coaching and research focus on male depression. He guides on resistance to help-seeking behaviours. He emphasizes the development of more flexible approaches to masculinity.
Besides his academic work, Dr. McKelley is an accomplished speaker and educator. He has delivered a TED talk on men and masculinities. He also works in the corporate sector. He has collaborated with major companies like Google and Walmart through Lyra Health. He aimed to improve workplace mental health initiatives. Dr. McKelley uses a multifaceted approach to men's mental health. He combines academic research, clinical practice, and corporate consulting. This blend of methods establishes him as a leading expert in masculinity studies. His work focuses on men's emotional well-being.
Resources Mentioned
Helping Boys Become Connected Men -Ted Talk by Ryan McKelley
University of Wisconsin-La Crosse - where Ryan teaches
"The Masculine Self" by Chris Kilmartin and Andrew Smiler - Ryan uses in his courses
Ryan's website
Ryan's LinkedIn
Connect with Ryan On:
Website
LinkedIn

Power of Personality Types in a Creative Space w/ Eric Gee

In this episode of the Men's Therapy Podcast, we sit down with Eric Gee. He is a renowned author and a life coach. He developed a groundbreaking personality types system based on "animal personality types’. Eric has a diverse background, including experience with major companies like Disney and Hulu. He is running a creative space called, Utopia Creatives in Los Angeles. He offers valuable insights into understanding personality types. He focuses on how they influence personal and professional lives. His expertise helps people leverage these insights for meaningful transformation. Eric discusses the importance of recognizing neurodiversity in the workplace. He highlights its crucial role in understanding different personality types.
"People are different than how society or your social circle of friends reads them," Eric shares. His early lessons from his father sparked his lifelong interest in personality. This foundation led Eric to develop a system that goes beyond the popular Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI). It is based on the ‘Animal personality types’. It offers a more dynamic and accessible approach using animal archetypes. His book, "The Power of Personality" explores this methodology. That makes such personality types relatable and actionable for all.
Understanding Personality Types in the Workplace
One of the central themes of Eric’s work is understanding the impact of personality types on teamwork and leadership in the workplace. Recognizing how different people process the world helps teams work together efficiently. This understanding fosters cohesion, even when members disagree.
"When you know why someone is acting a certain way, it makes it easier to work with them," Eric explains. His system categorizes people into four main "packs" based on core values. Such as safety, excitement, self-knowledge, and information. These packs are further divided into sixteen personality types. They help leaders and team members alike navigate complex workplace dynamics.
Eric explains that "Foxes," who thrive on excitement and risk, differ from "Beavers," who value rules and structure. Understanding these differences can prevent misunderstandings. This insight fosters a more productive work environment. This approach is particularly valuable in diverse settings like the tech industry. Places like these recognize neurodiversity as a strength.
Role of Personality in Self-Awareness and Mental Health
Eric's system provides valuable insights for personal development and mental health. These insights extend beyond the workplace. It is particularly for men who may struggle with societal expectations around masculinity. "The stag personality type is what men are told they should be. Confident, structured, responsible," Eric notes. Yet he emphasizes that this archetype only fits about 12% of men. This may leave many feeling inadequate or lost.
Eric's work encourages men to embrace their true personalities. Whether they align with the "Stag," "Fox," or even the more introspective "Shaman" or "Smith" types. This self-awareness can be transformative. It can help men to understand their strengths and weaknesses. It can guide them to approach life with greater confidence and authenticity.
Creating a Space for Personal Growth
Eric's Project Utopia is a physical manifestation of his philosophy. It’s a place where people can explore their personality types. It allows people to work on personal development in a supportive, community-oriented environment. Whether you're a "Butterfly" seeking artistic expression or a "Shark" looking for a new challenge, project Utopia offers a space where all personality types can thrive.
Conclusion
Eric Gee's personality typing system is more than just a tool for understanding others. It is a pathway to self-awareness and personal growth. Recognizing and embracing our true selves helps us build stronger relationships. It helps us lead more effectively. It also makes navigating modern life easier.
About Eric Gee
Eric Gee is a multifaceted professional with a background in life coaching, writing, and corporate team dynamics. He is the author of The Power of Personality. It is a book that explains his unique system of personality types. It uses animal archetypes to make complex psychological concepts more accessible. Eric's work has been implemented in major corporations like Disney and Hulu. He has helped teams improve their efficiency and communication. He has done this by better understanding each other's personalities.
Besides his corporate work, Eric runs Project Utopia. This creative space offers workshops and events. They are designed to help people explore their creativity. They help them connect with their true selves. Eric's approach to personality types is not only about categorizing people. It is about helping them grow and thrive in both their personal and professional lives.
Resources Mentioned
The Power of Personality: Unlock the Secrets to Understanding Everyone in Your Life - Including Yourself by Eric Gee
Project Utopia
Connect with Eric On:
LinkedIn
Website

Your Dog Has Superpowers You're Unaware of w/ Brady Foulk

Discover how dog psychology can lead to anxiety relief and personal growth. Brady Foulk discusses positive reinforcement and mindfulness for dogs and people.
Today's episode of the Men's Therapy Podcast features Brady Foulk. He is an innovative dog trainer revolutionizing our relationship with our four-legged friends. Foulk's journey into dog training began with a personal challenge. It was a mischievous puppy that seemed impervious to traditional training methods. "I made a promise to myself that I wouldn't give him up," Foulk recalls, reflecting on his early struggles. "Like I would do whatever it takes to find the trainers. And to find the thing that's aligned with me of who I am and what I wanted to train."
This commitment led Foulk to discover a unique approach to dog training. It not only transformed his relationship with his pet. But also offered profound insights into human behaviour, emotional support, and personal development. Foulk explains, "I empower puppies, dogs, and their owners. To have more success at home and around town while having fun while playing games." Brady Foulk's methods emphasize positive reinforcement and mindfulness. These techniques extend beyond pet training. They offer lessons for anxiety relief, leadership, and parenting. His approach provides valuable insights into various aspects of life.
Psychology Behind Effective Dog Training
Brady Foulk roots his dog training approach in understanding canine psychology. He emphasizes clear communication and positive reinforcement. He avoids using intimidation or bribery. "Positive is not permissive," Foulk states, addressing a common misconception about his methods. "There's still rules and routines."
Foulk's training philosophy centres on three key pillars:
Coming when called (for safety)
Place and crate training (for security)
Walking on a leash (for generalization of behaviours)
Foulk helps dogs and their owners build strong communication. This foundation fosters mutual understanding. This approach improves the dog's behaviour and enhances the owner's leadership skills. It also boosts the owner's emotional intelligence.
Applying Dog Training Principles to Human Relationships
Foulk's work is intriguing because it applies dog training principles to human relationships. This approach is particularly useful in parenting and leadership. It shows how skills learned with dogs can benefit interactions with people. "If you can recognize your patterns and again, find this stimulus gap and response. And that's all a pattern is, is there something that triggers you. And then there's a response and there's a consequence," Foulk explains.
This pattern recognition is crucial in both dog training and human interactions. Understanding these patterns helps people improve their responses and relationships.
Dog Psychology as a Tool for Anxiety Relief
Foulk's methods have shown remarkable potential for anxiety relief. They work not only for dogs but for their human companions as well. He describes how to train dogs to provide emotional support. Brady highlights, "I train a lot of dogs only to lick people's hands when they start feeling anxiety. And dogs can smell anxiety."
This support can help people with anxiety or PTSD. Foulk is partnering with organizations to provide emotional support animals to veterans. He focuses on the therapeutic potential of the human-canine bond.
Mindfulness and Personal Growth Through Dog Training
The process of training a dog can also be a powerful tool for personal growth and mindfulness. Foulk highlights that caring for an animal helps people focus beyond themselves. This is crucial for overcoming suffering and achieving personal development.
"As soon as you can start getting your mind on like, what does this animal need? What do other people need? You get out of suffering because you're thinking bigger than yourself," Foulk explains. This shift in focus can be transformative. It can help individuals develop greater empathy, patience, and self-awareness.
Conclusion
Brady Foulk's innovative approach to dog training offers far more than well-behaved pets. Understanding dog psychology provides insights into personal behaviour. It helps develop stronger leadership skills. It also offers effective tools for anxiety relief. Foulk's methods improve relationships between dog owners and their pets. They also offer valuable insights for personal growth and mindfulness. His approach highlights the link between animal behaviour and human psychology.
About Brady Foulk
Brady Foulk, a pioneering dog trainer, has transformed canine psychology and behaviour modification. His unique approach has revolutionized the field. Foulk has a background in personal development and a passion for animal welfare. He developed a training method that transforms dogs. It also enhances the lives of their human companions.
Foulk's journey into dog training began with his challenges as a pet owner. It started with him training a very difficult puppy. This experience led him to explore innovative training techniques. He developed a system based on positive reinforcement and clear communication. It fosters mutual understanding between dogs and their owners. His approach goes beyond traditional obedience training. It incorporates elements of mindfulness, emotional intelligence, and leadership development.
Today, Foulk is a respected dog trainer. He is also a thought leader in animal-assisted therapy and personal growth. He partners with organizations to provide trained emotional support animals to veterans. His work highlights the impact of the human-animal bond on mental health. This partnership showcases the benefits for veterans' well-being. Foulk shares his insights through training programs, online courses, and public speaking. He shows how dog psychology principles apply to human relationships. His work also covers personal development and anxiety relief.
Resources Mentioned:
New Direction Dog Training (website)
YouTube
Connect with Brady on:
Instagram
YouTube

Survival Guide for Young Men - Why ‘Today’s Masculinity’ Isn't Working w/ Patrick McHeyser

In a world where young men often struggle to find their place, Patrick McHeyser is blazing a trail through the wilderness. He is the founder of Odyssey Adventures. Patrick is on a mission to help young men connect with their masculinity. He aims to guide them in developing crucial life skills. His approach focuses on the power of nature and survival training.
On the latest episode of the Men's Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay sits down with Patrick. They discuss the transformative impact of wilderness experiences. The conversation focuses on how these experiences affect mental health and personal growth. Patrick has a background in primitive skills training and a passion for mentoring. He shares his journey from being a troubled youth to becoming a respected leader. Today, people recognize him for his work in male mentorship programs.
"I was that kid who was always getting into trouble," Patrick recalls. "But when I discovered wilderness survival, it was like finding a key to unlock my potential. Suddenly, I had purpose, direction, and a sense of accomplishment that I'd never experienced before."
This revelation led Patrick to dedicate his life to helping other young men find their path through the challenges of modern life. Through Odyssey adventures, he offers a unique approach to personal development. He combines elements of life coaching, rock climbing, and primitive skills training. This blend sets his program apart from others.
Power of Survival Skills in Building Confidence
Patrick emphasizes the impact of learning survival skills. He highlights how these skills can boost a young man's self-esteem. The development of these skills plays a crucial role in building confidence. "When you can start a fire with nothing but sticks and your own determination, it changes how you see yourself," he explains. "These skills translate into everyday life, giving guys the confidence to tackle any challenge."
Connecting Mental Health and Outdoor Adventures
One of the core principles of Patrick's approach is the connection between mental health and time spent in nature. He notes, "There's something about being in the wilderness that strips away all the noise of modern life. It forces you to confront yourself and your issues head-on."
This confrontation, while sometimes uncomfortable, proves to be therapeutic for many participants. The combination of physical exertion, skill-building, and natural surroundings is powerful. It creates an environment that fosters personal growth. This setting also encourages self-reflection.
Role of Male Mentorship in Personal Development
Patrick stresses the importance of positive male role models in the lives of young men. "Many guys today are growing up without strong father figures or mentors," he says. "Our programs aim to fill that gap. Providing guidance and support through the challenges of becoming a man."
Odyssey provides one-on-one mentoring and group activities. This creates a supportive community for young men. In this environment, they can learn from each other and from experienced leaders. This approach helps participants develop emotional intelligence. It leads to building communication skills and a sense of belonging.
Bridging the Gap Between Primitive Skills and Modern Life
Patrick focuses on wilderness skills but also highlights their relevance to everyday life. "The lessons learned in the wild don't stay in the wild," he asserts. "We see guys taking their newfound confidence and applying it to their relationships, careers, and personal goals."
The program includes elements of life coaching. This helps participants translate their wilderness experiences into practical insights. These insights then become actionable plans for personal and professional growth.
Conclusion
As our conversation with Patrick McHeyser comes to an end, one thing is clear. His unique approach to male mentorship is making a significant impact. His work in personal development is also leaving a lasting mark. Patrick combines survival skills, wilderness immersion, and mental health support. Through this approach, he helps young men navigate the challenges of modern life. His work empowers them with confidence and purpose.
For those interested in personal growth, Patrick's programs offer a path to self-discovery. They also provide opportunities for empowerment. This innovative approach can help individuals explore their potential. As he puts it, "Sometimes, you have to get lost in the wilderness to find yourself."
About Patrick McHeyser
Patrick McHeyser is the founder of Odyssey Adventures. It is a program dedicated to empowering young men through outdoor adventures and survival skills training. Patrick has over two decades of experience in primitive skills and wilderness survival. He has become a respected figure in experiential education. His work in male mentorship has also earned him recognition.
Patrick’s transformative experiences in nature have inspired him. He has made it his life’s mission to guide young men. His goal is to help them achieve self-discovery and personal growth. His unique approach combines traditional wilderness skills with modern personal development techniques. This creates a powerful framework for building confidence. It boosts resilience, and emotional intelligence in today's youth.
Resources Mentioned:
Odyssey Adventures
NOLS (National Outdoor Leadership School)
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Men and Mental Health: How to Navigate Terminal Illness with Sheila Clemenson

Explore the impact of terminal illness on men and mental health and relationships. Learn from Sheila Clemenson about coping with terminal illness.
When life falls apart, our resilience makes us rise again. In today’s podcast,we dive into the complex intersection of men and mental health and terminal illness with guest Sheila Clemenson. She is a certified career and grief wellness coach. She explains about the mental health retreat for grief and loss. Clemenson reflects on her personal journey of supporting her first husband through his battle with ALS. She discusses various aspects of ALS support. She offers a raw and honest look at the emotional toll of caregiving. She focuses on how to keep a relationship strong in the face of a devastating diagnosis.
"I married him knowing that he was sick," Clemenson reveals, highlighting the depth of her commitment. Her story is one of love, resilience, and the harsh realities of being a spouse caregiver. She recounts her experiences, from the initial shock of diagnosis to the gradual progression of her husband's illness. Clemenson describes the emotions and relationship challenges of caring for a terminally ill partner.
The conversation is touching on crucial aspects of men's grief and vulnerability. Clemenson describes her husband's struggle to maintain his identity and independence. She says, "Grant did not want anyone to know in our community that he was ill. He did not want people treating him differently," She sheds light on the common tendency among men to conceal their struggles. Even in the face of terminal illness.
Navigating Life's Transitions 
Clemenson is guiding listeners through the various stages of her journey. She highlights the importance of therapy and support systems in coping with grief and loss. She shares how these resources were crucial in her own healing process . And how they helped in rebuilding life after loss. She discusses the impact of such transitions on her and men and their mental health. She offers guidance and support for all who go through grief in a relationship.
"I had an amazing therapist," Clemenson states. She highlights the importance of professional support during life's most challenging transitions. Her story is serving as a powerful testament to the resilience of the human spirit. It is an epitome of the transformative power of love and support in the face of unimaginable hardship.
Emotional Toll of Caregiving
Clemenson shares her caregiving experiences. She highlights the emotional challenges that are often overlooked. "I had gained a dependent child, man child, so to speak," she says. She describes the shift in her relationship dynamic. This honest admission shows the complex emotions caregivers often feel. Such as frustration, guilt, and exhaustion. She focuses on finding strength after loss.
Clemenson is also addressing the importance of maintaining one's identity while caregiving. "If I could go back and do it over again, I would have been Grant's wife instead of his caregiver," she reflects. She emphasizes the need for balance and self-care in caregiving relationships.
Men, Vulnerability, and Terminal Illness
The podcast is exploring the unique challenges men face when confronted with terminal illness. Clemenson's account of her husband's attempts to push her away near the end of his life is illustrating the complex ways men may struggle with vulnerability and dependence.
"He tried to push me away like seriously, like three months before he died," Clemenson recalls. This behavior, she suggests, stemmed from his desire to protect her from his pain. It was his way of shielding himself from the discomfort of being dependent. The discussion is shedding light on the need for greater understanding and therapy for men. Especially for those who are grappling with serious illness and end-of-life issues.
Men and Mental Health: Highlights of Today’s podcast
Sheila emphasizes the crucial role of support systems in navigating grief and loss. "If I hadn't built the support systems that I did, including a phenomenal therapist, I would have never made it through to where I am today," she states. This underscores the need for comprehensive support. Especially professional therapy, during times of crisis.
Clemenson's experience highlights the difficulties of keeping a terminal illness secret. "Keeping something so devastating a secret is challenging," she admits. This point shows how secrecy can add extra stress for both the ill person and their caregiver. She urges for people to focus on therapy for men.
Despite the hardships, Sheila's story is one of remarkable love and resilience. "It's a testimony to resilience and the power of moving forward, but the pain of moving forward." She explains as she describes her journey of rebuilding her life after loss.
Clemenson’s honest thoughts on being a wife and caregiver reveal the complex dynamics in these roles. Clement states, "I would have been Grant's wife instead of his caregiver." She underscores the importance of maintaining relationship identities even in caregiving situations.
The podcast shows how men often find it hard to be vulnerable in relationships, especially during illness. Sheila's account of her husband's attempts to push her away near the end illustrates this challenge. She highlights the need for better support and understanding for men facing terminal illness.
Conclusion
Sheila’s story of love and loss provides insights into the complex interplay between men's mental health, caregiving, and grief. Her experiences underscore the importance of support systems. She focuses on therapy and open communication in navigating life's most challenging transitions. As society continues to grapple with issues of men's mental health and terminal illness, stories like Sheila's serve as both a guide and a source of hope for those facing similar challenges.
 
Resources Mentioned
"Over the Rainbow: From the Depths of Grief to Hope"
Transitions Coaching Services
 
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